Ex has shown himself to be untrustworthy when it comes to what he lets DD (8) watch on TV/films. I um'd and ah'd about how to deal with this while continuing to let DD spend time with him. My answer is to ask to come with DD to his, to watch films she's already seen and desperate to watch again/wants me to see them too. He's agreed to let us come over this weekend so I asked about a couple of films DD has seen. 1st is the Hobbit, he doesn't have that now. 2nd is Rock of Ages, a 12, and a film I wouldn't have picked myself for DD to watch but she's seen it now and keeps singing the songs.
Would you believe he's had the fucking cheek to tell me he's worried about letting me watch it 'cos there are 'suggestive' scenes and a bit if swearing!