ExH maintains that when he has DD, due to work he can't collect her from school till about 5.45pm. I don't quite get this as I know his boss well the business has busy hours from 8am to 3pm and less busy 6am to 8am and 3pm to 5pm. Previously he has been able to work more flexibly and his boss definitely would accept some long days 6am to 5pm and one shorter days. ExH maintains he can't ask for this and has to work 8 to 5 every day - oh well I accept this.
Small bit of back story ExH left me for OW a mum of another girl who is still with her H some of the time (he knows everything) and she has no driving licence due to 3year DRink driving ban.
So what irritates me well when OW stamps her little foot he is able leave work early enough to drive to her house collect her then o to school and collect her girl at 5pm. To achieve all of this he would have to left work at 4.15pm at the latest.
So he can do this for OW's DD on a fairly regular basis, but not for his own DD. The really sad thing is on several occasions DD and I have stayed a bit later chatting/playing with others and she has seen him.