dd's have been to their dads this weekend, within seconds of coming home dd (9) said "grandmas going to stop you paying your rent if you stop daddy seeing us"
Ive NEVER said he cant see them ive always been happy to rearrange contact to suit allowed extra days etc, i think hes told her he doesnt see ds now because i wont let him (which isnt the case)
ive reassured dd that rent will be paid regardless and it was very wrong of them to have that discussion in front of her, and given ex absolute hell, but ive been left feeling totally drained yet again theyve come home sad confused and exhausted from trying to sleep on a double blow up bed (sharing it) that keeps going down so they wake up 2,3,4 times a night on the floor
dd was very upset by what was said and it took me an hour to calm her down and reassure her, dd (7) was equally upset over things that happened this weekend, we will now have two lovely weeks before it happens again, they asked for more contact so spoke to him tonight about increasing it and it was met with total silence hes just not interested, makes me so sad