I'm spitting tonight and need a rant...sorry!!
Last weekend my 'soon to be ex' husband could not come and vist the children as 'he was working' (very suspicious whether he actually as or not....). Anyway, today he came over for the day, and then made excuses why he couldnt sty to read them their bedtime story.....that he had to go back to his parents as they were away for the day, to let the dog out....blah blah..
Anyway, I couldnt find some of the childrens things and so rang him at his parents to ask him where he had put their stuff. His mum said that he wasn't coming back to theirs tonight and there was no need to let their dog out as they had been with the dog all day! It turns out he is with a friend - I do know this friend - they have known each other since birth, but have always thought that she had a thing for him!
I honestly do not care whether they are getting together, or are just friends or whatever - I pity any woman stupid enough to fall for his talk and lies like I did. But what i mind is that he lied to me, and this also affected our childrens time with him...they missed out on him reading a story, so that he could go and have a social life whilst I am stuck at home being a single parent!
If he had just said that he was going out tonight and couldnt read the story tonight It honestly wouldnt have bothered me, but I cannot understand why he has to make up these elaborate stories and lie all the time instead of just telling the truth..
Im SOOO glad I'm divorcing him (he was tarting about on the internet and dating sites/ chatrooms)...I can't wait till my decree nisi comes though in the next couple of weeks..
Rant over....