Hi
Congratulations a better life awaits... All the shit is officially the past.
I am also quite recently split, about 2 months now and my dd turns one oh so soon.
I just wanted to reply to your comment about not being upset yet. I thought this was the case with myself, assumed I was numb and it would hit me soon. Now I am starting to realise that I'm just relieved.
To have gotten to the stage where you split up with the father of your baby means you have already been through the whole plethora of emotions. The stress of trying to make it work is lifted.
Here is my tuppence worth
Don't be hard on yourself, your ex will probably do that for you!
Give your self treats, no bugger else will
Remember to appreciate the good things, no more doing his washing, don't have to share a kitchen, whole bed to yourself, whatever.
Don't ever bad mouth their dad in front of them even if he deserves it
Accept help, ask for help, always look for opportunities to return the favour.
I do wonder sometimes how did people manage before they invented coffee, calpol and mumsnet!