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Original poster

How long after you seperated was it before went on a date ?

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:06

Just wondering really ?

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:09

when me and dh split up i went through a phase of hating every single man everywhere!!(was very bitter as he left me when i was pg).once i had dd,that was it!i went abit tarty!but then dh came back and put a stop to my fun!!
but before i had kids,i used to overlap my bf!!Grin

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:11

Just realised I have never really been on a date Shock

Not sure my nerves could stand it Grin

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:11

its fun though!think id be pooing pants before hand though!

schneebly · 10/04/2006 17:13

I would go as soon as I felt 'ready'

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:15

Well me and xp have been split up 2mths, is that too soon ??

If i waited until i felt ready, i'll never ever have a date at all.

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:22

its not too soon.go for it girl!!let your hair down and have a bloody good time!!

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:23

Just have to find someone to date then Grin

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:24

cant you go on a girly night out and find some nice hunky man?

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:31

Not really no, no one to go with.

There was one arranged for this sat but i backed out for many reasons. Good job anyway as Ds was poorly.

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:32

what sort of man do you want?if you want someone brainy,go do some stalking in the library!

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nutcracker · 10/04/2006 17:34

LOL

Brainy would be good yeah along with a few other qualities.

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buffythenappyslayer · 10/04/2006 17:37

try the library then,its a start!!!

sanchpanch · 10/04/2006 20:04

yes i have been pondering this, been split 10 months - i think..... blimey it has gone quickly.....

but i dont really know how to get a date, there is a bloke i really really fancy but i would never ask him out, because i dont have the confidence and i couldnt stand anymore rejection,
I feel ready for a new man but it is just a case of how...

buffy.. how long were you single for?, did you go on any dates? sorry i am nosy

nikkie · 11/04/2006 15:50

4 years 8 months so far!

LadyTophamHatt · 11/04/2006 15:52

nutty, did you go out on Saturday?

how was it?

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