Can't get excited about new baby

[amarylisnightandday]

It's just the start of more shit. Just asked solicitor to withhold letters from exh for a month but foolishly looked at the most recent guff.
This is ridiculous. I might as well still be with him being picked apart all the time.
Had such a lovely day with dd1 and friends and enjoy single parenthood but any contact however indirect with ex plunges me into sadness.
Don't know how to distance myself from it.

It is not easy. Accept you can't change him and he may always be like this. But you have done the right thing by getting away from it physically. And he is the one losing out, if he continues to be like this, the children will pick up on his attitude and behaviour and not want to spend too much time with him.

I understand.

I don't know how to advise you, but I do understand how you feel.

(split with my ex a few months ago, we have a toddler and I am 28 weeks pregnant. Been through solicitors etc)