There's a woman I really like but...............................................!!

[YouCantCrackMeImARubberDuck]

she is with someone.

We get on well and it makes me feel good to see her and to talk with her.
A similar thing happened in the uk and we ended up in the sack, but I felt guilty and so did she.

I know the woman in uk was not happy with dp but I didn't let things move on. I was worred about her leaving her partner and if it didn't work between us.

Should I say anything to the woman here or just let it go?

by the way its jmg with a trial name.

drop me an email

I'm in Islington RubberDuck - don't think you'd want to give up sunny Portugal for that now, would you? Although I wouldn't mind a few weeks in the sun! Are there lots of single men out there????

I've thought about the online dating too but always get put off when I see the selection of photos

Hi, long time no speak! Have snuck on net at work so have to be quick - tell her how you feel, tell her nothing would happen while she's with someone and DON'T sleep with her, then see what she does - easiest on everyone that way.

And the name has got to go!

I signed up with a couple of dating agencies but you wanna see the mingers that try and contact me. I mean i am no oil painting but bloody hell.

I know nc! That's how I feel. I may be desperate but I'm not that desperate! (yet)

LOL Exactly Happymum

Hiya Wobbly

hey HMO2, are you going to parents evening tonight? I just got home from school.

I signed up with one once (after half a bottle of wine with a mate) and got 'interesting' men - such as one who said he liked water and ricecakes (!!!!) - bit of a lottery but might as well try it as not

hi nutty, how are things?

I'm ok ta Wobbly, nothing a bottle of vodka and a nice bloke wouldn't cure

How are you ??

Get 2 bottles of vodka, nice blokes are incredibly few and far between and when they come along they usually fancy someone else. Drink the vodka while you wait for mr perfect to turn up :o

I'm fine, enjoying myself - would like a new bloke to complete the picture but not going to shed any tears over it - if he wants me he can come and find me.

God i think if i wait for one to find me i'll be ancient LOL

Mine's got about 11 years to find me, then I'm considering batting for the other side Still hoping the guy at work will come in one day and realise he fancies me, not the girl in the other office

Awww he must have crap in his eyes Wobbly

Did it tell you i got a job ???? Anyway haven't got it anymore LOL

Aww, thanks, no the other girl is drop dead gorgeous, sweet as anything and DOESN'T have a sproglet so no competition! :o What was the job? And can we chat on \link{http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=1375&threadid=159303\here} - I don't want to start hijacking jmg's threads after only TWO days of being back (I'll leave it at least 2 weeks before I start that again)

Oooops yeah sorry JMG

just had a quick look at one of the dating sites the majority of blokes look 'weird' and the ones that don't say they don't want someone with kids I think I'm destined to stay single for ever more!

kid, I'm not going, have S here & his mum coming soon. How comes you were at work today?

hijack as much as you like!

wobbly I knew you could not keep away, there is no escape from mn.

do you remember those threads we had about dating a long time ago?

so you don't like the name.

happymum
There more single men than single women. Maybe men are more likely to travel to a foreign country on their own.

Yep, I remember the threads and think you should try it as much as possible - what's the worst that can happen? And I HATE the name, keep thinking you've grown fat and yellow.

And I did escape from MN, for ages, but I sensed people needed me.

I think it often spells trouble to go straight from one relationship into another. If this woman does split with her dp, I think it would be best to give her a bit of recovery time before making your move. Otherwise there's all kinds of baggage and emotional fallout which can scupper a new relationship.