Writing to his solicitor?

[MsNobodyAgain]

A few months ago my ex-h had his solicitors send me a letter saying I was denying him access to the children. Not true. He has MH issues and chose not to see them. I rang his solicitors on receipt this letter (didn't see the point of going through a solicitor myself) to explain the above.

He asked for weekly access. I said we needed to build it back up slowly, which we have done but he has been consistently late for access and today he didn't turn up at all.

Should I write to his solicitor so this is documented? Any other advice?

It's worth having everything possible in writing. Write to his solicitor. You have back up evidence if it's needed in future

Thanks Emmielu. I am waiting until I calm down to draft a letter to his solicitor. It was only 2 weeks ago that I had the Police here because my ex-h had gone missing. They asked me if he harmed me during the marriage (yes). Did I ever report it (no). So I want to do things right this time.

I am thinking he is seriously not well and I may have to involve a solicitor again. But he's violent, and I'm scared.