I need to rant!!!!

[Scarredbutnotbroken]

Dc dad works away. When he is away life is great and care free. When he is back throwing his weight around its rubbish!!! I need to vent I bloody hate him coming back even though I know fb need to see him and have him in their lives it's just so bloody stressful and crap :-(

I feel for you. This is why i like being a single parent. My house my rules.

You need to tell your dh to go by the rules.

Sorry jus wrote dh. You can slap me its been a long day

He is pretty boxed in already I just feel my blood pressure go up anyway. I like frolicky carefree with dd - life is more fun when it's just us

How long is he back for normally?

Up to a month usually

I was going to suggest just letting him do what he wants for the time he is here but a month is a long time.

You probably will need to sit down with him & explain how u feel & how it is affecting the kids. Tell him that its not appropriate for him to throw his weight around as he doesnt do the main caring/bringing up of your kids.

We don't have direct contact luckily

Thats the best kind of contact