My ex is not interested in his son, never even bothered to come and meet him. He is however paying some maintenance through the CSA.
Now, I can't cope on my own any longer and I'm about to move "back to where I came from" and i'm wondering what will happen to the maintenance? I believe i would need to get a court order of some sort to be able to apply for the maintenance but i don't know how to make this happen??? He is not named in the birth certificate and hasn't formally admitted being the father other than agreeing to pay the maintenance (and therefore not taking the paternity test) But somehow i don't think this will be enough evidence for the court.. So if he doesn't pay voluntarily will he be forced to take the paternity test or is he just going to get away from paying it at all?
Any advice would be welcomed (even just directions to useful websites)!