STBXH sees the children on a Wednesday evening and on a Sunday. We are going away on Friday so i've offered him the chance of having them on other days as he is missing a day but he has other arrangements...He saw the children on Sunday and said "see you Wednesday" to them and then last night he jsut never bothered to come and get them. I called him twice, they called him, I texted him and emailed him and he never replied. I called him this morning and he said that when he got home and I didn't drop them round he turned his phone off because he was frustrated. He normally picks them up, I would have dropped them round if he answered the phone. Seriously, what an arse!