Dating sites - which ones are you using?

[kayah]

In the past I have used plenty of fish nad okcupid, nothing came out of it regardless of changing ad. I always mention that I have 2 kids and that seems to put men off .

Through Pership was only ever contacted by scammers.

Is there a site out there worth paying for?

I use okcupid finding it good so far.

I guess my ad must be crap then as I only had weird characters 9and spammers) contacting me on OK cupid so far :)