What a pig

[refmum]

My ex came to my flat earlier to take the kids out for a bit,he stood and pointed his finger at my face....(i have a spot on my chin) and said "have you picked that? it looks really big,red and inflamed"

I just stood there,gobsmacked at how rude he is!!!

Wish i could have thought of something clever to say at the time but i just stood there like a lemon,what a horrible man,i really don't like him.

He was clearly trying to get a rise out of you, the knob. If he does it again maybe something like 'My spot will be gone soon but you'll always be stuck with your shit personality/lack of manners/rude nature/small cock' (put whatever is his worst feature here). I'm the same though, can never think what to say when put on the spot but come up with amazing witty retorts 2 hours later .

that's brilliant,why oh why didn't i think to say that?!!

I'm so lucky - my ex has man boobs.
He loves to say nasty things about my appearance but whenever he does I just grab his moobs and give them a wobble!

oh and i could put all those things,shit personality/lack of manners/rude nature/small cock and moobs lol!!

I think you did the right thing by saying nowt. My Ex likes to drop information in - about where he's going. new job etc, and it drives him MAD that I don't ask about it all. If he comments on anything I do - rudely or not - I just ignore, leave a gap and then carry on speaking about whatever we have to, stuff to do with DD. LIterally blank him. I've told him before, he's lost the right to comment or have an opinion about anything to do with me and I'm not interested.
Tis the best revenge ever

you're right.

I just can't believe how rude he is,if one of my boys behaved like that i would be furious with them and they know better even at the ages of 4,6 and 11.

Make like yeast and Rise Above

It is rude. He is clearly a wanker. But, if you're anything like me, it just goes to make me so happy he's not my problem any more!

amen sister!