Access in shared accomdation?

[Lovemelillady]

XP is moving in with his mate to cut his outgoings, but I feel very uncomfortable with dd potentially going there when he has access, although totally understand why he is sharing.

Any experience or views would be greatly appreciated!

how old is she??

i would be concerned if its overnight stays

I think it very much depends on what the friend is like and what the accommodation is like. What are your concerns?

She will be nearly 2. It is one of his 'lad' mates who drinks with him. I do know him, he's the butt of all jokes, has a liking for prostitutes, drunk driver, out almost every weekend.

What to do hey?

I guess it really depends on your ex and whether you trust him to keep her in an environment that is safe and appropriate.