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what would you do?

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da55 · 26/03/2011 09:31

ds keeps asking for his dad but anytime i call or take the kids to see him he just use abusive languages that brings me down and makes me feel like the end of the world.he doesnt show any interest whatsover to contact them unless they ask and i am happy if i do not hear from him.ive been making excuses to my 4yr old who wont stop asking for him 24 7.he refuses to pay anything towards the kids up bringing and making me the evil one eventhough he was abusing me and continues to do it.
advice please

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GypsyMoth · 26/03/2011 12:27

why can't you go to the csa for maintenence?

i would be busy filling your ds little life with other distractions. its hard i know!! but you cant force him to be the dad you want him to be

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da55 · 26/03/2011 18:45

thanks ive spoke to csa and they need to contact him so waiting for their reply.am trying my best to keep him busy.

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