XH and I have very recently split up, and we have no money for an expensive contested divorce. We're both keen to keep it amicable - so he says - but what would you all recommend as the correct childcare agreement to put in place?
He wants DD every second week, all week, but as she's only 21mo and have never spent more than three hours away from me I think this is unreasonable... I am proposing that as I am the SAHM I have her MOn-Fri, he has her Sat & Sun - until she goes to school, in which case we'll switch to every second weekend. Is this too much time with him?
I feel I'm compromising but also feel really anxious about DD being away from me for so long, as XH has never been involved in childcare except bathing her every night - I do all the feeds, night wakes, playing, putting down, nappies, etc etc etc...
Help! I'm confused and need advice... Thanks.