Big Prat of an ex (not paid maintenance for a year and is a general dickhead about most things - eg can't skype kids cos it costs too much - ermmmm.... it's free!!) has finally finally agreed that the DC can spend Christmas with me!!! bearing in mind we are snowed in et etc etc and his NW is a psycho (CAFCASS said kids subjected to DV from her - emotionally and psychologically) -YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DS now playing 'It's gonna be the best Xmas ever' from a dvd he has!! 