Why are there so many fuckers out there?

[poshsinglemum]

Why are there so many fuckers out there? (11 Posts)

And why do I always find them?

I know there are lots of lovely men but I don't seem to have a twat radar.
Men seem to hate me. Am I really unlovable or why aren't there lots of lovely men who want to care about me?

Why is it so hard to find someone to love me and me to love?

My advice,

... breath in ... breath out

I havent been on a date for some time now but am aware that there is a small minority of decent men out there. I swear its like 2000 fuckers to 1 decent man, absalute jungle...
I am sure you are a lovely person, but for some reason you along with many other women are just not finding the decent men. :o

Do you love yourself?

Do people really love themselves?

... so often I'm going blind

Sorry couldn't resist that.

Yeah, of course they do. Loving yourself gives you the confidence and self-esteeem not to put up with twats. And to a normal genuine person, there's nothing more attractive than a woman who knows what she wants and won't settle for crap.

It may be possible to love yourself and have low self esteem every now and again, especially when you get let down? :)

Maybe on occasion but not in general

Actually I think its the wrong term, most people who are happy and confident, still fuck up and may put up with twats. And I would say very few people really 'love themselves' almost everyone has some insecurities and worries. That is what I meant, but yes confidence and self-esteem are obviously good for people!

Yes whiteandnerdy, that was the other side to the question!

Waves up at everyone from the gutter!

Oh dear...isn't it time to go to bed?! Or the gutter lol!

Girls all you need to remember is that Men are Phlegm

It might be bad luck and it might be expecting very little?

Don't be shy to put them to the arsehole test lol! And if they fail walk away.

Don't get emotionally involved too fast either

Whats 'The Areshole' test?

Yes, what is the arsehole test?

It sounds painful.