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my date of 2 months admitted last night he is bothered by me having ds....

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petitfromage · 30/08/2010 19:42

...should I be worried? He hasn't met him yet as we have been out just the 2 of us on about 8-9 dates. We are having a great time, he has stayed over a few times (hooray!!) when ds been at parents and in all other ways I'm happy to let things just carry on as they are and see where we end up.

But then last night I asked him (after a bottle of wine) whether it bothered him that I had ds...he said yes a bit. He's very honest at least! But he's same age as me (36) so doesn't need to date someone with kids necessarily. I asked him whether he wanted to meet ds and he said no not yet. Again very honest!

So should I be worried? Or relieved that he is honest and not faking his emotions? Not sure how I feel but would probably have preferred him to be slightly more enthusiastic about the idea of ds.

Advice greatly appreciated as dating as LP is a minefield!!! Confused

OP posts:
mathanxiety · 05/09/2010 17:51

Sometimes people tell you the truth about themselves, and I think this is the truth here.

catherinedenerve · 06/09/2010 00:39

Flightattendant I agree too!

And how very very true mathanxiety.

Petitfromage, are you ok? Sorry about all the crappola. You really fancy him, don't you? You did not really want us to say all those things...Sad

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