I have been with my partner for 11 years. When we first met, he’d just split with his first girlfriend. Anyway, 2 years into our relationship he cheated on me with her (he said that he had been really drunk and she had taken advantage- something which still to this day I'm uncertain about)
Anyway regardless of this, we moved past this!
Every so now and again she would change her number or text/call off a friend and try and contact him or myself.
I got annoyed one Easter and told her that if she kept contacting us, then I would contact the police.
So, we hadn’t heard from her for about 4 years! However, I was being nosy and saw that she had recently passed away from a stroke 6 months ago! This was 2 weeks before our wedding (something which we weren't aware of) and then even weird I saw that we conceived on the day of her funeral!
Admittedly I didn't like her, but I feel so shocked and sad for her family! I also feel really conflicted about conceiving on the day of her funeral!