Wedding venue with onsite accommodation

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I’m looking for a wedding venue where guests can all stay on site, preferably with a license that goes later than 11pm. Ideally either in London or not more than 90 minutes from London. Any suggestions? TIA

How many guests, and how much can you afford to pay?

(I am assuming here that if you're choosing the accommodation - rather than the more normal practice of signposting a number of local options with varying price points - you're picking up the tab)

I know a few places in south London, The bromley Court Hotel and Bickley Manor. What areas would you prefer? 90mins from London is a massive area. What are your priorities.

We haven’t got a clue what we want! Been trying to decide for 4 years!!! Nearly booked a farm once- this one yoghurtrooms.com
I was really keen but husband to be couldn’t imagine people in suits in tents!! Now think we are too old for this. Really just want a nice party to celebrate- so keen for venue not to finish at 11pm and don’t want to spend half the day doing all the silly rituals that go with a wedding. Literally service, meal, and then party. Don’t really want to pay for everyone’s accommodation, so perhaps accommodation available if people want it but can stay elsewhere if they want. We are trying to keep it to 50/60 people (no kids)