Best THING ABOUT THE AREA: the coast, there are so many options, huge beaches at the Witterings (ok that's Sussex, but it's not far), funfairs at Hayling Island and Southsea, smaller beaches at Lee-on-the -Solent and Hillhead. Portsmouth Harbour and it's many attractions, the Isle of Wight nearby.
Best CHILD-FRIENDLY CAFÉ: there's loads of them, none stand out particularly.
Best CHILD-FREE NIGHT OUT: lots of local pubs and restaurants all over the place.
Best OUTSIDE SPACE: Southsea Common, Mottisfont Abbey, New Forest.
Best HIDDEN GEM: Not very hidden, but the viewpoints on top of Portsdown Hill are fabulous (probably best avoided after dark). Oh and Hilsea Lines.
Best COMMUNITY VENUES: Alton Maltings Centre
Best FREE VISITOR ATTRACTIONS: Royal Armouries on Portsdown Hill
Best DAY OUT: Portsmouth Harbour / Historic Dockyard / Gunwharf Quays / Spinnaker Tower.
Best PLACES TO LIVE: Meon Valley, Alton, Alresford. I also loved living in Southsea many years ago.
Best PLACES TO SHOP: Basingstoke is surprisingly good if you want all the big chains in one place, will be even better if they get John Lewis. But I prefer Winchester, a great mix of smaller and more individual shops, cafes, etc plus all the historic buildings.