I'm going to have to challenge you on that, SBNH. "We all want what is best for our children, even if we don't agree, I'm glad we are fighting for them". Of course we all want what is best for our children, but we also have a social and moral duty to fight for what is best for all children.
That is why I am part of this campaign, even though I am in a part of the borough served by a perfectly good secondary school (and with a girls' school up the road - I have girls). I have nothing to gain from a new secondary school, but it is the right thing to do.
It is why I am not one of those parents campaigning against primary school expansion in my part of the borough, even though my dc's school is already big and I'm already in it. It would be better for my children if the school didn't expand, but that would be us just drawing up the ladder behind us, and I can't defend that.
Your attempt to equalise your struggle and kew's, when she is fighting for the chance to have one decent school option for her ds, and you are fighting to have your dc to have privileges at the expense of other children's needs, is just not on. I can't believe your faith asks you to just look out for your own kids, and not for anyone else's. Honestly, would Jesus have taken the children of the rabbis and taught them? No, he wouldn't. He would have gathered the children of the poor, the homeless, the prostitutes and the Samaritans, and given his attention to them. Would he have said, "You fight for your kids, and I'll fight for mine?"
Lots of things offend me about faith schools, but the widespread abnegation of moral responsibility for other people's children really chuffs me off worse than anything.