really pleaed for you re ds2 and that you're so happy with KG.
Just got call from docs saying they need to see ds3 urgently - need to take bloods every 6 weeks and the dopey bint receptionist cocked up the appointment, so now I have to cancel important appointment with Kindergarten leader and rejig my day.
I invited one of ds3 friends from KG last week, and offered to feed him. Mum v. grateful, as meant she didn't need to cook. Fed him well (he ate loads!). Today, she kindly reciprocated. I checked - are you planning to feed them, yes she said. So I feed ds1 & 2, then collect ds3 on way to ds2 guitar lesson. Ask kim what he's had to eat - a bear with chocolate in his tummy (???) and some gummi bears. Hmm, ok, so ds3 had no dinner.
So if the arrangement gets repeated, how do I politely ask if she's planning to feed him, and if it will actually be proper food. I am too quite liberal with sweets myself, but even I was at chocolate tummied bears and gummi bears in 1 play date.
Ooh ooh ooh, am over excited, as I appear to have found english speaking women in my Wohnort and this american lady is hosting a play meet at her house - only 5 miniutes walk tomorrow! My social life might be on the up after a year of not-so-splendid isolation!
Good look with Elterngespräch at KG Canella. When I had mine, the teacher took me into a room, and popped out to retrieve a box of tissues. I made a joke about was it bad news, and was I likely to cry, and totally Po faced, she answered that many parents did cry! WTF is she about to tell me, I thought, but it was totally fine and interesting. Still got ??? about that box of tissues. And like you say, after 8 weeks, not too much to say.