This is a moan really, I know there are worse things in the world. My family and i live and work between two bordering countries. I've just about had enough of being the foreigner in both. The other thing is that these countries generally dislike each other, so I have to be so careful of saying anything that will offend either country. When I tell people in one place about the other there is general disdain and vice versa. This is not always case and not everybody feels so strongly but i've had a couple of incidents in the last few days which has just made me realise how fed up I am of it. That's it rant over 