Hi,
Hope you are both settling in well. I've got two girls at BSM, both v happy and doing well. Have had loads of extra support for one...driven by the school, so v happy in that regard. Have friends with children at ABA and seem v happy.
We looked at both ABA and BSM, but at the time ABA had a huge waiting list (40 plus) and refused to take our daughters name.
Regarding clubs and facilities, worth checking out the PDO club. Used to be just for employees, but seem a lot more accommodating lately. Have a great pool (chilled during summer and absolutely lovely), restaurants with v reasonable prices, bar, private beach with bbq bit, tennis, gym etc, and a great arts and crafts programme. Is over at Qurum...so maybe a bit far out if you end up looking at somewhere like the Wave to live.
We're in Azaiba in a lovely compound right on the beach. Has a pool. Are a few compounds and villas along the beach road (Street 37). Ours is managed by Hamptons...current rents 1200 OR for a decent sized, western layout villa. School run from here takes around 20 minutes, 12 with a clear run!
sorry...epic posting, but hth. x