That is interesting, Spamm, about the schools.
Here is a story about what happened in our school recently:
We were called into school to a Parent/Teacher meeting. In attendance were not only the teacher, the head teacher, representatives from the lunch time club, but also the school nurse and head of school health dept.
The parents had asked for something to be done about bullying in the school, in DD's class in particular. Now, we had not seen or heard anything about this until the letter came but DD revealed that a little boy was bullying other children and that one child was refusing to go to school.
The accused bully, D, was not unknown to our family, as he had held my then 4yo DS's head under water when playing in the lake. He was slightly older than DS but bigger and stronger than him. This had occurred two summers previous to the school meeting and since then we had not really had anything to do with the boy.
Anyhow, it was not explicitly mentioned at first, but it was clear to all at the meeting that we were talking about D. Eventually one of the parents spoke up and said that it was enough beating about the bush, everyone knew that D was the problem, that he was aggressive and a bully.
Several other parents joined in the discussion, some defending D and saying that stigmitising him would not help, others accusing him of hurting their children. The discussion went back and forth for a while until the father of D suggested that he give his mobile number so that anyone who had a complaint about his son could contact him directly.
The Head Teacher wrote the number on the board, and some of the parents wrote it down.
I went between being horrified that D was openly accused of being a bully, and fascinated with this very Swiss demonstration of direct democracy and openness. It was certainly not the way that the issue would have been dealt with in a UK school, I am sure.