We've just moved here from the uk, I lived here before so I knew what to expect, but now I have a 2 year old dd & am simply petrified, won't go in the garden, don't want to hang our washing out in case spidey wants to hitch a lift in. Saw a whitetail in a friends garden & that has made me 100 times worse! I know the garden is their habitat, not mine, but I'm so frightened dd will get bitten. Watched one trap a cockroach in it's web yesterday, they fought for 10 mins, the spider won! Do I just need to harden up or is there anything I can plant to try and repel them? Any advice or suggestions very welcome!