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Husband now terminal

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Nifflerbowtruckle · 03/10/2017 19:19

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do Sad. How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken Sad

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buttwingsham · 10/12/2017 19:18

I'm so so sorryFlowers

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RMC123 · 10/12/2017 19:24

So so sorry. Thanks

Horsemad · 10/12/2017 19:26

So sorry Niffler Flowers

BakedBeans47 · 10/12/2017 19:27

So sorry niffler but glad that is suffering has ended and you could be with him. My heart breaks for you.

I can’t say anything more than this. I’m so sorry xxx

Yorkshirebornandbread · 10/12/2017 19:32

Am so so sorry to hear your sad news. Eternal rest grant unto him, and may he rest in peace Flowers

CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger · 10/12/2017 19:33

I’m so sorry - thinking of you x

MrsPringles · 10/12/2017 19:33

I’m so very sorry, you’ve been amazing and cared for him and listened to his wishes so wonderfully, you should be so proud.

Sending lots of love to you and your little dog x

littlemissalwaystired · 10/12/2017 19:37

I'm so very sorry NifflerFlowers sending all the love in the world to you and your family tonight. How special he was able to leave this world knowing how truly loved he was. Put yourself first now xxx

plinkyplonkyploo · 10/12/2017 19:39

I am so sorry niffler. Wishing you strength for the days and weeks ahead. My thoughts are with you and the family. I would love to hear more about your dh if you would like to talk about him. Xx

StewPots · 10/12/2017 19:39

So so sorry Niffler. Much love to you at this difficult time xx

scotchpie · 10/12/2017 19:40

So sorry Niffler

Jb291 · 10/12/2017 19:40

I'm so very sorry Niffler. Your courage and your love for him shine through in every post. Gentle hugs to you and may light and love surround you. He is at peace and out of his suffering.

Cabininthewoods69 · 10/12/2017 19:41

I'm so sorry for your loss and the stars have gained an angel. No words can make anyone understand how you feel. Massive hugs xx

LordSugarWillSeeYouNow · 10/12/2017 19:43

God bless your wonderful DH. Please look after yourself Niffler, you are likely to be in deep shock even though you knew it was coming.
I'm so very sorry lovely xx

EchoesOfLeon · 10/12/2017 19:44

Sorry for your loss, your DH sounds like a great guy. You have done him proud I’m sure Flowers

loobylou10 · 10/12/2017 19:45

I’m so sorry for your loss x

Butteredparsn1ps · 10/12/2017 19:46

I'm so sorry to read your update Niffler. Thanks
You were there with him & it mattered. One day you can be proud of that. For now, my thoughts are with you. Take care my love

WhatWouldLeslieKnopeDo · 10/12/2017 19:48

I'm so sorry. Your love for your husband shines through in every post and it's so cruel that you didn't have more time together Flowers

areyouanappliance · 10/12/2017 19:49

Thinking of you sweetheart.

Ratbagcatbag · 10/12/2017 19:50

I'm so so sorry Niffler

Your love shone through every post, and you're in my thoughts at this difficult time.

ladylambkin · 10/12/2017 19:53

So sorry for your loss Flowers

DuchessofManchester · 10/12/2017 19:55

My deepest sympathy niffler.
Sending you love and support at this difficult time.
I'm so sorry it's come to this. Flowers

Reallycantbebothered · 10/12/2017 19:55

So heartbreaking to hear this sad news, thinking of you ....your dh was so loved

runningintothelight · 10/12/2017 19:55

I am so sorry to hear that he has now passed.

You are a brave , strong woman and I hope you manage to make it through the days ahead.

I'm so sorry xxxx

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