Hi, My gorgeous DP who is 49 was diagnosed with bowel cancer with liver and lymph nodes spread in Nov 2013' been through a shitty year trying to to treat it, unfortunately got told 2 months ago it's inoperable, and there is further spread now to his lungs, he is now back on the chemo!. We have been together nearly 4 years, he is my world, and we are engaged, he proposed to me at my 40th birthday which was v romantic in front of the whole family, he is a lovely person, we always intended to get married, but now it's an impossibily due to finances, so we decided a few days ago to have a very low key commitment service at the local town hall to exchange rings, which is 11th April, 3 weeks on Saturday arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ,so no pressure for me to find a perfect dress!! Lol!.. I'm going tomorow to look, but I need ideas for readings as I wd like my bro to read something and also want ideas for appropriate songs for our ceremony, I think we can have 2, I've been looking on the internet tonight, but I just feel like I've got a million things to do, and nothing is getting done.. Thank you in advance xxx