Bisexual and don’t know where to start… help!

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I’m not sure if this is the right topic to post under, but I’ve come to a realisation I’ve been sitting with for some years now. I know that I’m a bisexual woman, though I lean more towards women than men.

I’ve only ever been in heterosexual relationships and have never really explored this part of myself. I’m now in the final year of my thirties and feel that I owe it to myself to finally do that — not out of impulse, but self-respect and curiosity.

I suppose my biggest question is: where do you even begin? And more specifically, where do you meet like-minded women in a way that feels safe, respectful, and genuine?

There are quite a few threads in the Sex topic on MN that discuss this.

Normal dating apps work well, just be honest if you aren't looking for a serious relationship. Feeld can be useful if you don't mind meeting someone who already has a partner (helps to take the relationship pressure off!). Skirt Club, Mint Events and KillingKittens all offer socials and 'play' parties. If it's purely sex you want, some swingers clubs have women only events.