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Furries

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 19:48

Today my DD came home from school , she’s 6th form and told me there was a child that identifies as a furry …. New to me this one . Wears a collar at school , although has been declined a request for a litter tray in class . On talking to my D.D this seems to be a large influence of social media . My concerns are not that someone wants to be their own being of cause they should - but the influence of social media and more importantly how these people can navigate in life without support … Thoughts on this please

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Deadringer · 12/05/2023 20:42

SleazyLizzard · 12/05/2023 20:35

I’ve heard of the litter tray thing in Irish class rooms, the teachers have to pander to it because of self ID laws there.

We do not have litter trays in Irish schools, there were some fake reports in the media that were debunked.

TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 20:43

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:13

And that’s fine , if it’s a preference … but what concerns me is two things firstly support for interactions and secondly is this an influence of kids media .

It's never a preference though.
It's another perversion/paraphilia.

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:43

Bang on would agree

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Kablea · 12/05/2023 20:43

You might want to move this to ‘chat’ instead of ‘LGBT parents’ as I can’t see how it’s relevant on this topic.

CouldIHaveThatInEnglishPlease · 12/05/2023 20:45

Ds(14) has started talking about furries over the last week so I imagine there’s a sudden increase on social media or something.
maybe it’s because self id-ing as trans is now pretty common amongst the teens, so those who have low self esteem and are craving the shock factor/attention seeking are now going one step further.
whatever floats ya boat

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:45

Enlighten me , as I’m open to this conversation and facts

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:46

Please advice … thank you

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TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 20:46

Yes, this does scream journo.

Shhhquirrel · 12/05/2023 20:47

HermioneWeasley · 12/05/2023 20:02

Nobody will ever convince me that Furries aren’t degenerate and disturbed. The overlap with diaper fetishes is immense. Furverts.

Furverts

Genius 😂

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:47

Sorry that came over as rude apologise I genially meant advice me thank you x

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:54

Totally . Your right … and my post was never meant to be judgmental . An observation of support for diversity ,. And observations on change of society

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ShowUs · 12/05/2023 20:56

If I had read this 6 months ago I wouldn’t have believed it.

Unfortunately, there has been a massive increase of furries or students talking about furries.

IME these aren’t sexual and are different to the adult furries who are sexually attracted to other furries.
However, it could of course lead on to other things.

It absolutely is MH or some other issues.

I work with SEND students who often have animal alter egos and will act like them and believe they are that animal but those animal personalities do not come into the classroom because I refuse it.
I do not understand how some mainstream teachers are allowing this.

TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 20:57

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:54

Totally . Your right … and my post was never meant to be judgmental . An observation of support for diversity ,. And observations on change of society

I'm not supportive of perversion.

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:58

And that’s all good as adults that’s a choice , but media supper in posing that’s a let down .

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:02

Please tell what perversion is out of the remits of child safeguarding is ? I’m lost

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TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 21:03

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 20:58

And that’s all good as adults that’s a choice , but media supper in posing that’s a let down .

What?

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:10

You have implied , and I appogise if I have this wrong … you think that adults can’t make a choice of their sex life ! As adults we can do as we wish , however that was not what I was saying … I was talking about children’s identification , and indeed adults and the impact of social media be it positive or negagative .nand how we can help

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Justcashnosweets · 12/05/2023 21:13

There is a child in Dd primary school that identifies as a furry. She throws major tantrums if the other children or teachers don't pander to her frequently changing identity and pronouns. 😵‍💫

daytriptovulcan · 12/05/2023 21:15

Identifying as a Furrie would be a comical and even appropriate comment on the absurdity of it all. It's just satire surely.

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:16

This. Is why as a send myself , I’ve come to net mums …. You’ll know only too well the challenges we have … no tools . ASD, ODD , we want to help … but little support or help with this increasing crisis of not supporting children that identify

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:18

Im not a paedtrian but sounds like ODD

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TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 21:18

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:16

This. Is why as a send myself , I’ve come to net mums …. You’ll know only too well the challenges we have … no tools . ASD, ODD , we want to help … but little support or help with this increasing crisis of not supporting children that identify

This isn't Netmums, though.
Grin

TheShellBeach · 12/05/2023 21:19

And I doubt if you're a SEND.

Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:24

Yes it is . I have 4 children myself… so if you want to troll me and take away from life experiences go ahead . I’m just sharing … that wasn’t nice . You know I find it very carthatic to talk . I really don’t know what to say to that post

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Mopscharlotte · 12/05/2023 21:26

I’m happy to go up front and say who I am .., are you

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