Support for Mums in straight relationships who may be gay or bi

[SuddenRealisation]

Hi, I have another thread where I have explained that I am married with 3DC. Although I love my DH I have recently come to the realisation that I still like women very much.
I say still as I used to date women before him. I am very confused at the moment and am trying to work out whether I am bi or gay..

I feel like I maybe went in to denial about my sexuality and tried to live a more conventional life due to disapproval from my (toxic) parents.

Anyway, just wanted to start this thread in the hope that there are others in same or similar situations.

Hey is anyone still around? I've tried to write this message twice now but kids always stop me haha
Bit of back story I'm in a straight relationship with 2 dc but have always been bi which everyone knows (except my parents!) I've had one long term gf in the past, actually was with her before I met dp. However I met this girl about 18m ago, she was always over the top with flirting to the point I didn't believe her! Anyway she came out to everyone this summer and since then We've been hanging out a bit more! Not on our own cuz we have the same friends. The other night we had a little kiss (more of a peck) and have been messaging a lot more since! It's sooo complicated as she has a gf she's not happy with and I obviously have dp! We have been through hell since we've met (he's been a dick) but there would never be any chance of an open relationship or anything like that! And I'm very sad that I won't be with another woman again especially this one. Although by that I think I just mean sexually and not relationship wise. At least at the minute I can't imagine a relationship purely because of my kids I think. Sorry I'm going on! Can't think properly as I'm having a drum played In my ear lol
Would love to chat with you all x

Anyone still there??.
X

Hey mummy

This forum is always a little quiet I'm afraid

I'm a bi woman, in a relationship with a woman now, but completely get all the confusion and intensity you're feeling

I'm about if you want to chat :) x

Hey, a bit late but I'm still here.
I'm sure your kids would adjust if you wanted to have a relationship with a woman. You only live once and all that, do what makes you happy..

I am still living with my H as friends as I can't see that changing for a while.. Just have to keep trying to love forwards, towards being my true self. One step at a time I guess.