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Help needed cafcass report violent ex

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RubyBelle · 30/09/2009 12:54

Long story but ex took me to court after i stopped contact because his violence/drink/drug taking our son was 13 months
he then took me to court we had finding of fact proven guily of above he didnt turn up and his solicitor stopped rep him

2 years later he takes me back to court saying he was " depressed"
cafcass get involed and order a phy report drink and drug tests

just got report back today and they are so many holes in it

he admitted to cafcass being violent but not to the doctor conducting report he just said he is really laid back !

the doctor hasnt even questioned him about the time he broke in my home snatched our 6 week old son and passed out drunk so police had to gain entry i thought the report was to comment on the effect of his drinking on the safty of my son

dom violence has being completly played down due to his depression by cafcass but doctor says he isnt and doesnt suffer from depression he has being arrest 4 times from my home but again in report by the doctor he just says once!

im rep myself in court so not sure who to turn to i feel like noone is on my or my sons side and im worryed about this mans behaviour will have on my 3 year old

has anyone had any dealing with stuff like this sorry for the rant im just gutted

ive also found out that his legal funding is in questio because he has being working and not letting lsc know about it will this effect anything? i dont qualify for legal aid thats why i rep myself

if anyone has any help i really need it

thankyou

OP posts:
NicknameTaken · 22/10/2009 11:43

Just to say that my solicitor allows me to pay on a monthly basis - I pay £200 a month which means some belt-tightening but is doable. It might be worth asking.

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