hi i do not know if you can help but maybe you are the women to speak to i have a three year old and she hasnt seen her dad in over a year, he has now decided he wants to see her and is taking me to court for access, he lives in wales i live in the west midlands he wants to see her twice and then take her to wales for a week i said no way, he used to take drugs and has symphathy for those parents that kill there children to spite the other parent which is scary caffcass are trying to get to us but apparently they are backlogged also my solicitor has told me that i will not be able to ask for supervised visits as they do not have the resources and this is really scary and i would love some advice from mothers who have been through any of this. thank you