My father is about to die. He has a will, leaving everything to my brother & me, in a nearly 50:50 split. No other beneficiaries, we are both executors and we are both happy with the terms of the will. No other family involved and no-one who might contest the will.
We will need to get probate for his estate, then sell his house & organise his investments. What I'm wanting to know is what is the protocol for small physical items such as household objects in the meantime. Do we need to leave them all in situ until we've got probate? Or is it generally accepted that we can grab those items we each want as long as the other agrees and we keep a record for IHT/estate valuation purposes? Should we start clearing the house once he dies, or wait till we get probate? What about the small amount of cash he has?
We plan eventually to get a house clearing service in, but there will be some items of household property which each of us is likely to want. We are likely to get a family member who is a solicitor to help us with the paperwork after my dad dies.