I'm one of three siblings. We were very lucky to be brought up in a lovely large house in a rural setting, with a long and sentimental family history behind it. My parents still live there. It needs to be modernised and they are ageing/unwell and maybe a bit in denial about how impractical it is.
They also own a small house in the local village which came to them by inheritance.
The situation with me and my siblings is that two of us have our own (mortgaged) homes in locations we need to be in for work/family reasons. The other sibling has been living in the cottage with their family for several years, rent-free as their income is limited. None of us begrudge this
The cottage is soon going to be too small for their family though, and they therefore need to move or extend it. However they have no capital and aren't in a position to borrow anywhere near enough to buy a bigger house.
We're all in agreement that this cottage could just be gifted to the sibling in question, and they've offered to be written out of their share of the large house - we don't really feel the need to do that, although I'm aware this is one of those things that could turn sour later.
However, my parents are elderly and worried about tax implications. I'm inclined to think that's a bridge we cross when we get to it and ultimately tax will come out of the estate, but I think it's enough of a worry to paralyse their decision-making. Partly the concern comes from whether we inheritors could be later forced to sell the large house to pay a tax bill. Personally I can't see that any of us would be in a position to buy the others out anyway so it all seems inevitable to me - heartbreakingly sad, but inevitable.
A house swap isn't possible for practical reasons. I think a good solution would be for our parents to sell the large house, buy somewhere smaller and more practical, and gift the cottage now, so that my sibling can get on with extending it or at least using it as capital for a mortgage on a bigger home.
Can anyone see any pitfalls/better solutions/risks etc? It's so complicated our heads hurt over it. We're in Scotland if that makes a difference.