My sister died last year.
She had two daughters from her first marriage and, when she walked out, she left them with their father, Pete. He’s a pretty good dad, but he was blindsided when she left, really struggled to be a single parent for almost a year and ended up losing his job because he couldn’t manage the girls and his work. They ended up on benefits for a couple of months. My sister was abroad then with her AP and didn’t pay any maintenance. Once everything settled down a bit, Pete got a new job, worked out childcare (after school clubs, my mum, his mum and dad and sometimes me) and everything’s been ok since.
My sister went on to get remarried to her AP and have two more children. I’ve never met them, my mum has only seen them once. The only person who maintained contact with her is my brother. The rest of us were appalled by how she behaved and are committed to supporting my sister’s first family above everything else, however right or wrong that is.
My sister made a lot of money in the last seven years. I don’t know exactly how she did it, but my brother says it’s been enough to buy a million pound house and go on some pretty good holidays. She started paying maintenance, but it wasn’t much and it was sporadic (which she admitted to my brother). Pete has ended up in a job which doesn’t pay much so my nieces don’t live in a million pound house or get to go on fancy holidays.
I think my nieces deserve some inheritance, if only to make up for my sister being a shitty mum and not paying full child maintenance regularly, and have said as much to Pete. They are both teenagers and are thinking of uni, which will mean they need to take out loans unless there is something from my sister’s estate. I love them and want to make things easier for them, but I don’t want to encourage anything which might end up in a further rejection for them, like if my sister had deliberately left them out.
My sister doesn’t appear on the Probate Search, but surely she would if she had made a will? Could she have made a will which didn’t go through Probate? Is there any way to find out what her will said and challenge it for the sake of her daughters?