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Child Arrangement Order Query

15 replies

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:00

Hello
Hoping for some legal advice/common sense advice
Following a long stint in family court, the below agreement has been set.

Week One
Father collects child from school on a Friday afternoon and returns her to school on a Monday morning on alternating weeks
Week Two
Father collects child from school on a Tuesday afternoon and returns her to school on a Thursday morning on alternating weeks

There is some confusion between myself and my ex partner about how this works.

I believe that this works in the traditional sense of alternating weeks, I.e week one, week two, week one, week two.

My ex partner believes that it is week one, week two and then starts again the following month.

Please could you advise how you are interpreting it?

OP posts:
ihavedonaldstrousers · 06/11/2024 20:20

In a month it will be:
Week 1 - contact at the weekend
Week 2 - contact midweek
Week 3 - contact at the weekend
Week 4 - contact mid week.

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:23

ihavedonaldstrousers · 06/11/2024 20:20

In a month it will be:
Week 1 - contact at the weekend
Week 2 - contact midweek
Week 3 - contact at the weekend
Week 4 - contact mid week.

Thank you, that’s how I read it too ☺️

OP posts:
Doggymummar · 06/11/2024 20:24

Week one week two week one week two repeat ad nauseaum.

He thinks week one
Week two
Nothing
Nothing
its January nothing
Week one
Week two

Is he serious?

Homebird8 · 06/11/2024 20:25

It's nothing to do with calendar months. The arrangement is for alternating weeks. The pattern continues as stated for weeks 5 and 6, then 7 and 8 etc.

Doggymummar · 06/11/2024 20:27

Surely it goes
1
2
1
2
1
2
For the whole year nothing to do with 7 and 8 ?

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:30

Doggymummar · 06/11/2024 20:24

Week one week two week one week two repeat ad nauseaum.

He thinks week one
Week two
Nothing
Nothing
its January nothing
Week one
Week two

Is he serious?

Edited

Honestly he has me questioning if I am the one without common sense haha

OP posts:
Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:30

Doggymummar · 06/11/2024 20:27

Surely it goes
1
2
1
2
1
2
For the whole year nothing to do with 7 and 8 ?

That’s what I think thank you ☺️

OP posts:
Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:31

Homebird8 · 06/11/2024 20:25

It's nothing to do with calendar months. The arrangement is for alternating weeks. The pattern continues as stated for weeks 5 and 6, then 7 and 8 etc.

perfect thank you ☺️

OP posts:
SausageinaBun · 06/11/2024 20:34

What did he say he wanted? Did he want lots of contact? It seems odd for him to have agreed to an arrangement (he thinks) that involved not having contact for half of the month, but a decent amount for the first two weeks.

ObliviousCoalmine · 06/11/2024 20:44

ihavedonaldstrousers · 06/11/2024 20:20

In a month it will be:
Week 1 - contact at the weekend
Week 2 - contact midweek
Week 3 - contact at the weekend
Week 4 - contact mid week.

This is the only way to interpret it. Your ex sounds like a berk.

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:45

SausageinaBun · 06/11/2024 20:34

What did he say he wanted? Did he want lots of contact? It seems odd for him to have agreed to an arrangement (he thinks) that involved not having contact for half of the month, but a decent amount for the first two weeks.

Yeah he wanted an increase, originally it was four days a month so has increased quite a bit to be honest

OP posts:
SausageinaBun · 06/11/2024 20:49

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:45

Yeah he wanted an increase, originally it was four days a month so has increased quite a bit to be honest

If it was his interpretation then it would be 5 nights a month, 3 in week 1 and 2 in week 2. So not much of an increase.

Firsttimeposter2424 · 06/11/2024 20:51

ObliviousCoalmine · 06/11/2024 20:44

This is the only way to interpret it. Your ex sounds like a berk.

Honestly 😂

OP posts:
SimpleThings101 · 06/11/2024 20:51

Is he unusually stupid?
it goes
week 1
week 2
week 1
week 2
throughout the whole year and into the next one, forever. Amen!

Marmight · 07/11/2024 20:40

Week One
Father collects child from school on a Friday afternoon and returns her to school on a Monday morning on alternating weeks
Week Two
Father collects child from school on a Tuesday afternoon and returns her to school on a Thursday morning on alternating weeks

It's there in black and white on the order. alternating weeks

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