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Questions for a QLR

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QLR · 10/08/2024 07:31

the judge at family court has requested QLR's be appointed regarding allegations of domestic abuse.
I have been litigant in person throughout, ex had a solicitor but has dispensed with them just now. probably realises all that money hasn't brought him the validation he seeks and had me labelled as a terrible mother.
i have a long documented history of the abuse he has perpetrated (police incident numbers over the years, working with DA services long before he started this vexatious litigation etc) and i have been consistent in my story for years because the truth is consistent.

in his c100 he said there was no domestic abuse and only went down that road far into the family court processes when he wasn't getting his own way. the allegations against me are ludicrous. i dont know any couple who fully agree on the best way to load a dishwasher!

so i have to prepare questions for the judge to consider for the QLR but i'm struggling to find guidance on line.
any pointers or suggestions would be gratefully received.

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QLR · 11/08/2024 08:52

hopeful bump

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prh47bridge · 11/08/2024 13:49

If you were cross examining your ex yourself, what questions would you ask to try and undermine his allegations? Those are the questions you want the QLR to ask.

QLR · 11/08/2024 14:42

i guess asking him 'why are you such a moron?' won't be allowed haha!

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