My ex has been threatening court recently and although I don’t think he’ll 1. I’ve never denied access once, 2. Have the money 3. Gumption to go through with it, I’m just wondering how you all cope of in a similar situation.
We have been spilt up for 2 years and in that time he’s lost 4/5 jobs and 3 rented houses.
He has terrible gambling addiction & also addictions to alcohol & recreational drugs too.
I have been documenting everything but I just need some advice on how to cope myself with the unpredictably, the rage txting I recieve. The worry my child isn’t been properly cared for as he never has any money. They constant lying!! Today he said he was working when he was meant to have his son, I’ve found out he’s actually not and is lying about it. Cue the rage txts to me. Threatening court, telling me I’m the most difficult person etc etc which is actually laughable.
he owes his family thousands, friends too. Lives off his sister & dad for money each month. But they still bail him out every month.
House is a mess, over the last 2 years he’s turned up hours late on his days from getting on it on a Friday/Saturday night. He’s just been a nightmare to deal with and I’m struggling really bad with anxiety etc from it. Any tips welcomed