My kids dad took me to court for access, we have an order in place for every other weekend, and half of all school holidays including 3 consecutive weeks in the summer..(kids are 10 and 14 but order has been in place since 2020 when they were too young for the court to listen to their opinion) for context he lives 100 miles away from us so they can't see any friends while there, he is the one that moved away.
Last year he took them out for one single day and did nothing with them the other 3 weeks so my 14 year old son has now text him and said he won't be going this year, apart from the normal weekends as he has plans with his friends. Dad has said tough. What are our options? I know if I don't make them available I will get in trouble but what if it's the kids refusing to go?