Legal Advice

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Just looking for advice my son has been telling school iv been hitting him so social services has got involved , then I got with my partner that iv now for year and we had a a couple of arguments where Iv had to call to the police I’m not taking any action but now I’m on the register for child protection iv been working with them to ensure my kids can stay with me but they have told me to stay away from my partner but he’s only been loving towards the kids I’m just wondering what I can do to keep my family together me my kids and my partner

oh good grief

I am very relieved SS are so heavily involved and long may it last

Why have you had to call the police if your partner's nothing but loving?

You can’t. And you clearly need SS input.

End it with your partner or say goodbye to your kids. Rightly so.

Sounds like you need to make a choice. Having a volatile relationship is bad for children in the household , however you perceive it. Even if nothing is directed specifically towards them.

A couple of arguments with police involvement is very serious. The fact you don’t acknowledge this, is of concern. You need to make a decision, bf or dc. Simple as that. The bf is a risk, the two of you together is another risk, the dc telling school about you is a risk. Risks have to be removed if you want to raise your own dc.