Although I called the Shelter advice line and it’s just for emergencies, it looks like you can still get non-emergency advice in other ways so I will definitely do that when they open on Monday.
I’m sorry that I have confused things again re the alarm as I meant a burglar alarm not fire that they want me to pay for a servicing and new battery(that I did not use).
They do have all their paperwork in good order and do things ‘properly’, on the face of it.
What they haven’t done is any maintenance in 10 years and then passing the cost on to me for redecorating the house for their new tenancy, not taking account that things have expected lifespans etc. And just being as harsh as possible.
Hopefully things like the fact that they have charged me for a new worktop and the cost of removing and replacing the hob, to fit a new worktop, when they actually replaced the whole crappy kitchen and charging for 2 months loss of rental income, will count against them.
All the fixtures and fittings were cheap and not new when I moved in 10 years ago, so expecting everything that didn’t look perfect to be replaced for new paid for by me is not right (plus all the labour costed).
They said repainting the whole house is 4,600 (!) but view of my 10 year tenancy they will pass on £2,300 to us!
I feel so depressed and upset by it today. I always treat people well and am considerate in everything I do, and I really felt that the house was left fairly and reasonably, morally and legally after a 10 year tenancy.
I am absolutely going to fight them hard though. I think I need to try to shut it out of my mind for the weekend though as it’s got me so down, and I don’t want this to affect my kids more than necessary, who already have a Mum with long-covid operating on v little energy etc. And my husband has possible flu and totally out of action. Need to have a break from it and then hopefully on Monday I can face it with renewed strength (?!)
I really appreciate the kind words and helpful suggestions and ideas. Thank you so much.