There isn't anything I am not saying...
There is a long catalogue they have itemised but all of which would be covered by redecoration. All cosmetic. Breakages such as a broken hook on back of bedroom door. Missing very cheapest of blinds (was mouldy and I threw it) - had alerted them to the damp in the past . Missing bulb.
We didn't paint anything while we lived there, or change carpets. We repainted some badly worn by kids areas in the exact same paint they had used (had asked nice maintenance man, now retired, which paint it was).
My husband and his friend who is a professional decorator spent a whole day painting, I feel we did more than necessary on that front. They are saying there are areas that weren't completed - but actually we didnt need to repaint the cream walls at all as it was wear and tear anyway.
The place didn't look as smart as when we moved in 10 years ago but I felt it was more than reasonably left for wear and tear.
We are not living in the areas mentioned. He does have a huge portfolio and his own office to manage them. I think you are right and they are hoping for judgement in default or that I will be scared into settlling.I think they probably do do this a lot.
Sorry if I have missed some questions, things are full on at home and people are needing me here. Logically I can fight it all, I just feel so anxious in my body now, and knowing the time it will take when I have very limited spoons as it is.
Will read all suggestions again when kids asleep (about 2am!).
They decorated it all and rented it for a lot more money to next tenant. They are charging for loss of rental income, and interest. I think they took their time doing the work and are trying to pass costs on to me.
I will go to CAB next week fingers crossed!
Thank you again and sorry to those who have had a hard time too, and also thank you to the nice reasonable landlords!