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Chances of a no contact order

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MelxJgx · 15/02/2023 19:18

I have been reading that's its rare. My ex got a letter sent from a lawyer saying contact stopped for no good reason there was a good reason tho. He's been charged with assault on me I got him charged with harassment just the other day there, he assaulted me again by picking me up and flinging me on a bed but police said there wasn't enought evidence to charge him for that even though I have messages off him admitting it, but the day he done that he's tried to take the baby away from me in the pram the brakes where on the pram so he's pulling the pram about with baby in it but again they said there wasn't enought evidence and I have messages off him stating that he didn't know the brakes were on. The messages I have from him saying hes going to slap the shit out of me he's going to kick my door in , round 2 gloves are off as he messed my face up st one point even have messages off him saying don't even ask me to see the baby and one when I was pregnant telling me to raise IT myself will the family court take all this into consideration? He don't work all he's interested in is playing a playstation and smoking weed. And his house just isn't safe atall for a baby to be as his mother sells drugs they fight with their neighbour who smashed their door up with a baseball bat, and him and a friend got dragged out the house just recently by 10 police officers no idea why but he got a fine for tht on the 8th of February. Really hope he gets a sentence for this harassment case as he's had a tag community service now a fine so it's the only thing left. Social work is still involved right now too

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MelxJgx · 15/02/2023 19:21

MelxJgx · 15/02/2023 19:18

I have been reading that's its rare. My ex got a letter sent from a lawyer saying contact stopped for no good reason there was a good reason tho. He's been charged with assault on me I got him charged with harassment just the other day there, he assaulted me again by picking me up and flinging me on a bed but police said there wasn't enought evidence to charge him for that even though I have messages off him admitting it, but the day he done that he's tried to take the baby away from me in the pram the brakes where on the pram so he's pulling the pram about with baby in it but again they said there wasn't enought evidence and I have messages off him stating that he didn't know the brakes were on. The messages I have from him saying hes going to slap the shit out of me he's going to kick my door in , round 2 gloves are off as he messed my face up st one point even have messages off him saying don't even ask me to see the baby and one when I was pregnant telling me to raise IT myself will the family court take all this into consideration? He don't work all he's interested in is playing a playstation and smoking weed. And his house just isn't safe atall for a baby to be as his mother sells drugs they fight with their neighbour who smashed their door up with a baseball bat, and him and a friend got dragged out the house just recently by 10 police officers no idea why but he got a fine for tht on the 8th of February. Really hope he gets a sentence for this harassment case as he's had a tag community service now a fine so it's the only thing left. Social work is still involved right now too

He also stole the babies Xmas money 😂 so embarrassing

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amiold · 15/02/2023 20:10

He will probably get some contact if he shows to the court he's turning his life around (turning the spotlight, building better relationships, Dapp when it's reformed) but it may be minimal, supervised, supported.

He will have to apply to court and then it will considered. Section 7/37 drafted. Finding of fact etc. he may also allege allegations against you which need to be ironed out. All the things you say about him you will need to provide evidence for. Cafcass and the court will determine if he is a risk and contact may be built up. It's hard to say as each case is specific.

If he is found guilty of all the things you say and shows no remorse and no effort to change he may get no contact or indirect. Again hard to say.

It will all be a lengthy process

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MelxJgx · 15/02/2023 20:57

Yeah I have proof, have messages of the harassment and the abusive texts. Still have the pictures of my face when he physically assaulted me too left me scarred aswell. And his home had been busted for drugs and drugs where found so that should be on record and the fights with the neigbours have all been court cases aswell. I'm in Scotland so don't think we have cafcass

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amiold · 16/02/2023 05:32

Ah right not sure on Scotland. Let him apply to court and go from there

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