Hey, so, my ex pleaded guilty to ABH (by recklessness - yeah right) anyway, we went to court to sort out child arrangements and his mother is supposed to supervise contact Thurs - Sunday (this was all i could get until next court hearing). Now, his family dont think he needs to be supervised, his mum goes out a lot and has a boyfriends house she stays at, and in court she moaned a lot about having to stick around and supervise for 4 days, she also moaned about this in the social services report.
The issue i am having is I know he isnt being supervised, but his family will lie, and his mum will just say she was gone for an hour which she has been given permission to do (1 hour max) so i dont know what i am supposed to do.
i dont want my baby unsupervised as he is a drinker and gets angry (hence the attack on me 2 months after he left the home) but i have no way to prove he isnt being supervised and he lives out of my area, so clearly feels he can get away with it.
is there any advice at all?
I am not allowed to his home, as he isnt allowed direct or indirect contact with myself, so i am unsure what i am supposed to do.
Thank you in advance xx