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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 17:59

My ex is taking me to court and I need to fill this out does this mean are the children been at risk of being abused from their dad?

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heldinadream · 18/06/2022 18:18

They are asking you if you believe the children are at risk of any of those things from ANYONE who's involved in their care or who lives with them or has contact with them.
So that could mean their dad, or someone he lives with or hangs out with or is related to, for instance. Any fears that you have in this area.
Does that help OP?

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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 19:27

Ok well their dad doesn't have contact with them yet, he's trying to have contact with them. So it will be a no then? they live with me and my partner and other siblings and they are not at risk of suffering any form of abuse from us

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heldinadream · 18/06/2022 19:55

Well it says has or has been involved with their care, so presumably that includes your ex? Did you live with him and the children? Does he have parental rights as things stand now? Then the answer is yes. They are trying to find out whether he should be excluded from their care.
Have you got proper legal advice OP?

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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 20:16

Yes we lived with him that was over 2 years ago and yep he's got parental rights. I'm waiting for a solicitor to get in touch with me, I've contacted a few.

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heldinadream · 18/06/2022 20:21

So you need to answer yes to that question.
Forms are hard aren't they especially when you know they're so important.

Dominuse · 18/06/2022 20:22

So has he ever abused you or the children financially, physically , emotionally or mentally or neglect them - ?if you write

mr John smith (applicant) physically abused me on 01.01.22 at 8.00 am in front of the children Mary smith and Peter smith - reported to the police. Injuries were : -…,., I attended hospital on 01.01.22 at 16.00 and had an x ray and ….. or whatever they are

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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 20:26

He's physically abused me but not Infront of the children he's verbally abused me over messages and he's very aggressive and violent so I do believe if anything happens whens he's got my children he will kick off and I don't want the children to witness anything like that.

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Dominuse · 18/06/2022 20:32

any witnesses? Did you take pictures? Record with gp? Did he admit it in texts?

you respond yes
where were the children when he assaulted you?

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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 20:43

If got messages of him abusing me and the children was at school

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Mummyto4beautys · 18/06/2022 20:44

Reported everything to police that was over 2 years ago now even this he's still harrasing me the police are still involved

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