Getting divorced after 2 years of marriage. Ex has hardly worked and then built a pension up pretty fast in 4 years. He wants half the difference in our pension pots. I am not willing to agree to this, due to part time working as have a young child my pension is hardly to climb and he will soon have a lot more than me. Does anybody have any experience? I have a solicitor but due to fees I am doing a large amount on my own